In Psalm 31, in his most trying time, David says he feels like a broken vessel—meaning he feels rejected, despised, and repulsive to the world. (v. 9-12) The message says it like this, “like a broken dish in the trash.”

Have you ever felt like this? Weakened by too much stress and the overwhelm of life? And feeling utterly completely damaged and alone?

The issues of life’s hardships, uncertainty, and the day-to-day burdens of the world weigh us down.

Sometimes we don’t experience the Godly beauty of our vessel –we don’t feel like a pretty vase—a colorful and full of life because we are still living with false beliefs, a worn-out narrative of ourselves, and messages of the past that continue to plague us.

We feel flawed, unusable—this is where feelings of unworthiness keep us held back from showing the world the light within.

“Whenever the pot the potter was working on turned out badly, as sometimes happens when you are working with clay, the potter would simply start over and use the same clay to make another pot.” Jeremiah 18:4 The Message

The analogy of us spoken of as vessels—clay pots created and formed by God– is used throughout the Bible. We are a piece of clay, being molded into a beautiful art piece to be used by God for His purpose and our destiny.

The Potter uses the flawed and broken to reshape, remold, and finally create a vessel (you and me) that will hold Holy Spirit life and power to shine so brightly, you will attract others to Jesus. (2 Corinthians 4:7-12)

Praise Jesus that we are His masterpieces, we are loved, we are worthy in Him and created for all good works in the Kingdom here on earth.

We will be exploring this topic and more when we get together in the RVA for Conversations, Connections, and Community. These times are for us to get back to the most essential basics of Kingdom life for God’s power, prosperity, and purpose. There are only a few seats left!

My first experience with the power of community did not begin in the church. As a Sunday School teacher in the throes of alcoholism, there was no way I could get “real” or be “real” with the people there.

They’re “church people,” after all. They could never understand my shame, my sin; they weren’t sinners, I was.

So, I kept the secret, showing up every week, terribly hungover (sick) and ashamed.

As much as I prayed to be delivered, it didn’t happen.

Today, I realize that God was pushing me toward help, people who not only related to my burden, my addiction but were open and honest about their own journey.

It was the beginning of true community for me. People (mostly women) who accepted me as I was and only wanted to see me free from the horrific effects of the years of addictions.

Within this small community, and later in the larger gatherings, I began to shed the pain and shame of many years of hiding, pretending, and searching for remedies.

I began to grow spiritually, emotionally, and mentally (and physically)–transformed by God’s Grace and Love through the guidance of others who, like me, desired healing and fulfilled lives.

When I became honest, reached out for help, and became a part of a community, the Holy Spirit began His work in me. Through the process of recovery, I became the woman God created me to be from before I was in the womb. (Jeremiah 1:5)

I came back into the church a different woman, delivered, forgiven, and free to share my story so others could heal. This could only have happened with others, not alone, not “me and God”–He’s the one who graciously steered me to those angels with skin on for help.

We need each other, now more than ever. Long-term isolation brings pain. Secrets keep you stuck, robbing you of the abundant life in Christ.

We are made to gather together. Jesus created a sacred community with His disciples and others. He is about honest, loving, and genuine relationships through believers like you and me.

Real community is a hearts-to-hearts connection. There is more power, more strength together.

Community is more important than ever, especially when gathering together is challenging, and for some, non-existent.

Wisdom from nine-year-old Johnny

The hustle and bustle of this season may look different for most of us; however, the pressures of the holidays may still exist.

Several years ago, I came upon this list of how to get through the holiday season thriving, not just surviving, the activities and extra duties that are part of Christmastime. Nine-year-old Johnny made some compelling (and truthful) observations and offered several tips to consider:

1. Adults get cranky when they get too busy. Ask for help. People like to help.
2. Don’t get uptight. Try to stay calm as much as you can.
3. If you get cold, just bundle up. Then you’ll like snow.
4. Be grateful.
5. If there’s too much cooking to do, get rid of the olives and the salad. But, not the turkey.
6. Think about God.
7. Help people.
8. Give people presents from their favorite store and get a gift receipt. It’s so exciting to see if people like the presents you bought for them! So, in case, they don’t like your gift, they can just return it and find something they DO like.
9. If you’re really too busy, don’t get a tree. That will make a huge difference!

Johnny was right about adults getting “cranky” when faced with all those holiday tasks. Sometimes I forget until I’m deep into the grouch persona. Johnny offers the remedy in Tip #2—Ask for help.

Am I the only one who has a difficult time asking for help? For most of my life, I desperately struggled with reaching out for assistance. I kept trying to prove I could do it all and all by myself. Pride keeps us from seeking and accepting help. It also keeps us stuck in misery—and this goes beyond setting up the Christmas tree! It leaks out into the way we handle all of the demands of life.

And, yes, people will answer your requests for help. Try it!

There isn’t much I can offer in the suggestion to bundle up—I think it might just be me—but winter weather is definitely for the birds, but not this California chick! We have been blessed with the late summer-like fall weather until today! We woke up to a dusting of tiny snowflakes. I’ll not complain. Instead, I will strive to be grateful.

And, not just grateful for the weather—but as the Word tells us—give thanks to God in all things! (1 Thessalonians 5:18) Why? Because gratitude brings about a heart and mindset change where we can rise above the world’s clatter. Gratitude brings peace to your soul.

The best part of Johnny’s list? Think about Jesus whose birth we celebrate at this time of year. Our #takebackyourlifegroup is reading through the Gospel of Luke. Join us! It will make your heart full!

It’s the giving season; a time to help others. Reach out to those who are alone, who struggle with sadness and depression; those who have had a loss this year, and those who may be in financial hardship. This year has been tough on all of us; some have suffered so much loss in so many ways.

This season take little Johnny’s sweet advice—get out of overwhelm, think about God, and help others.

And, if you need help, don’t forget to reach out. Don’t be alone in the stress, loneliness, or uncertainty of this unusual holiday season.

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“Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts.” Colossians 3:16

It’s been a different kind of year. Okay, that’s an understatement. We have never been this way before as we head into our Thanksgiving and the Christmas season.

Our world as we have known it has ceased to be, and we are in a season of uncertainty as we navigate daily life during the strife, the sickness, and fear of the future.

Yet, the Word says, be grateful “in all things.” It isn’t easy, not in our humanness. Our restless hearts seek comfort, happiness, and well-being—the blessings. We want to know that everything is going to turn out okay (my way). Sometimes it doesn’t.

This past September, while visiting my mom in California, she suffered a stroke from which she never recovered. We prayed that she would be with us longer, but it didn’t happen. It was challenging to thank God at that moment.

But, when I asked God to bring peace into the situation for my sisters and me, I suddenly realized how grateful I was that I listened to the still, small voice that one month earlier said, “Don’t wait, go see your mom, now.”

I became grateful that I could be there with my sisters. Mostly, I thanked God that He was with us in all of it.

I have found that what the heart really yearns for is the higher life, the Jesus-centered way of living that focuses on Him as its source of fulfillment. No matter what is going on “out there.”

A grateful heart begins with a conscious decision to accept life as it is right now. Gratitude is a choice we make every day. When we choose it, God gives us the strength to accept the unacceptable. We pray with a thankful heart for the “peace that passes all understanding.” (Philippians 4:7)

Guided by Holy Spirit energy, our responses to life become powerfully effective. Fear and confusion leave us. We become energized and equipped, wrapped in Grace and Love.

Gently guided on the path to freedom from wanting our way, our world opens wide before us. We step into the days ahead filled with promise, hope, and security in Him.

Spiritual growth happens when we see that we have all we need and that God, our Source, loves us and will never forsake us (Deuteronomy 31:6).

I pray that you will be in the joy and peace of Jesus during the Thanksgiving season. I pray, also, that you live in the supernatural gift of a grateful heart.